Sure, it's nice to get all those lovely crayon-scribbled notes that say "I love you," along with a soggy bowl of fruit loops and vase of dandelions in bed. But it's OK to want a little more out of Mother's Day. After all, consider what you do for your family year-round. You deserve to be treated specially, perhaps even treating yourself if need be! If you'd like to make Mother's Day all about you, then it's OK. Taking a family time-out might be one way to relax and rejuvenate. When you serve as "mom" 24 hours a day, seven days a week, you can get pretty burnt out. Instead of asking for jewelry - or God forbid, a vacuum cleaner - ask your husband to take the kids for the day. Why not take time to do something you love and don't have time to do? Browse the library - alone, in the adult section.