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5 Tricks for Dealing with Difficult Relatives

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Work on not taking things personally. If you're offended by something that is said, brush it off. Don't take it to heart. Remember, everyone is entitled to their opinions, but that doesn't mean you have to like them. Work on the things you can change in the situation and forget about the things you have no control over.

For example, if you have a relative that gets inebriated every holiday and the gathering is at your house this year, eliminate the alcohol. If there is a specific relative who you have a recurring issue with, avoid that person and stick with the relatives who you can tolerate. Try keeping yourself busy. Maybe designate yourself as the photographer or videographer for the event. If you're constantly occupied, you won't have time to get in the middle of a verbal confrontation. Remember, the holidays only happen once a year... don't someone else ruin your fun.