Over the river and through the woods to Grandmother's house these days tends to be a longer haul for families who have to fly to see relatives. So what's a family to do when the inevitable happens on one of those trips? Being stranded in an airport during an extra-long layover or waiting for a delayed flight can easily qualify as one of the circles of hell for parents traveling with kids. The first way to avoid the situation altogether is to book only nonstop flights. No stops means a better chance of arriving on time, not having to navigate an unfamiliar airport and overall reduced travel time. Another bit of research to do before you book is to check the on-time rate of your chosen airline, flight and layover airport, if applicable. Many travel search engines like Expedia and Travelocity can tell you what the on-time records of your particular flights and airport(s) are. Flightstats.com can give you the same information about on-time performance ratings. Once you've found the speediest way of traveling, then begin to pack for adverse conditions. Plan for the worst, but don't over-pack.
It's best when traveling with kids to over-pack snacks - those foods that are familiar to little tummies - and under-pack toys. Clothing is another item to consider putting in your carry-on luggage. Pack individual outfits in large zip-lock bags that can be used for trash, diaper disposal and soiled clothes later in the trip if necessary. At least one extra change of clothes on hand will help greatly if luggage is lost or a delay becomes longer than you anticipated. Pack at least one diaper per anticipated hour of travel. Consider clothing that makes it easy for your kids to pass through security without a hitch. This includes avoiding metal belts and hardware, shoes that tie and even metallic sequins and other decorations that girls tend to wear. If you find that you'll be delayed overnight, then discuss hotel arrangements with the airline. Figure out whether you'll be compensated for any equipment like carseats you'll need in transporting a child to a hotel, then for cribs and the like at the hotel when you arrive. Expect the unexpected when you travel with your kids, and you'll be prepared to roll with the punches.