Can't have an orgasm through intercourse alone? Join the club. Planned Parenthood estimates that as many as 80 percent of women have problems achieving the big O through intercourse alone. So what's a girl to do when she doesn't? Plenty. According to the experts, there's more than one way to skin a cat or please a... woman. Truth be told, the big C needs more attention than the big G (spot) to achieve the big O. It all comes down to the clitoris. Most women require clitoral stimulation to get off. From manual manipulation to oral sex, there are a few ways to complement the actual act of intercourse. When having sex, work yourself into a position (doggie style anyone?) where he can play with your clitoris with his fingers or even a vibrator. Or even a vibrator on his finger.