As women, we all know what makes us feel sexy and most of it involves a certain level of comfort. Unfortunately, what we like and what makes us feel sexy might not always mesh with what our men want to see us in and what they want to see us get out of either. While we might think that a nice black dress will do the trick to keep them foaming at the mouth, the men in our lives might beg to differ.
Even if something that you have worn for ages has seemed to do the trick in the past, it might be time for a change to keep things interesting. Here are the top 5 things that he likely wants to see you in, then out of (in no particular order).
1. Sexy Lingerie
It sounds cliché, but there is a reason why places like Victoria's Secret exist. Luckily, this is not your mother's lingerie. There are so many different options that you can choose from when picking out lingerie and it no longer has to be uncomfortable. You can opt for the simple yet sexy, or you can go for something with all of the kinky bells and whistles.
When it comes to taking off your sexy lingerie, you can do a strip tease or have him take it off for you one piece at a time. The bottom line: he wants to see you in something that offers enough of a tease that you are hiding something but not too much that you don't allow him to use his imagination. It all depends on what your man likes, though, so see if you can get it out of him without him knowing before you empty the racks of your nearest lingerie shop.
2. A Thong
As much as many women hate to wear thongs, men simply love them. They love the idea of not being able to see everything but being able to see enough to keep their interest and imagine what might be underneath. If you were uncomfortable the last time you tried on a thong, try one on again.
There have been some pretty cool advancements in this type of underwear, meaning that in some cases, you might not even feel like you are wearing anything. This can eliminate underwear lines and keep your man guessing what you are wearing under your clothes. When it comes to taking them off, he can use his hands or his teeth.
3. A Low-Cut Dress
Sure, there are leg men and butt men out there. But most men adore breasts, and they like to see at least some partial cleavage in anything that you wear. If you have any size to your breasts, then you can perk them up with a nice-fitting push-up bra and then wear a low-cut dress over it for a sexy look. If you are flat-chested or have more of an A cup, then you can go even lower with the cut of the dress.
Yes, it leaves less to the imagination, but it also provides a stunning and daring look that can leave your man wanting even more. With a low-cut dress, there is more than one way that you can get out of it, making it easy for him and for you when the time comes.
4. High Heels
This is more along the lines of those spiky high heels that you see in the movies, not something that you would necessarily wear to work. These high heels typically are black and almost always exude a sexy quality that cannot be found with any other type of shoe. Six-inch would be best but go higher if you can handle it. Practice walking around the house in your heels first so you don't stumble.
Whether you are fully dressed and are getting ready for a night on the town or if you are playing dress-up at home with your man, you should find a sexy pair of heels that you can slip on quickly when the time calls for it. When it comes to the height of your high heels, the higher the better. Even if you have trouble walking in them, don't worry. You likely won't be wearing them for very long anyway.
The idea of this is a little less sexy, for sure, but the makeup that you wear on your face is just as important as what you wear on your body. It can make your man more turned on when he sees you wearing some daring eyeliner or some hot pink lipstick. You can go as crazy as you want here - if you have some time to yourselves and are in for an adventurous night, then you can pull out all the stops when it comes to your makeup.
Check what is in your arsenal for some ideas right off the bat and add to it if you find that your makeup is less sexy than you want it to be. Just like he will love to see you in it, your man will also love to see you out of your makeup.
Many men today love a more natural look - or even women who wear minimal makeup or makeup that goes unnoticed by the naked eye. He will see your beauty shine through both with your makeup and without it.
These are just 5 of the many, many things that he would love to see you in - and out of. If you use your imagination, you likely can come up with dozens more. You know your man more than most people do, so what you wear entirely depends on the types of things he likes.
If you know him well, then you know what he wants and how to get him in the mood with what you wear. Even if you don't, you still can experiment with some of the things on this list to see where you land. You never know, you might discover new things about yourself and your man that can add some serious spice to your sex life.