Parents and their children establish their relationship and love in a variety of ways, and one of the first ways to begin that process is bonding with baby. Bonding establishes trust between parent and child, and it prepares the child for learning what the world is all about. Starting the process may begin while the child is in utero, although that doesn't mean adoptive parents are at a disadvantage. After the 18^th week of pregnancy, babies can hear what's going on outside the womb and will respond. Shortly after birth, newborns will respond to those same sounds he heard in the womb. This makes for a great opportunity for partners to sing or talk to the pregnant mother's belly to continue that relationship after birth. Babies respond to sound and touch above most other senses, and newborns don't see very far - to make eye contact with baby, get within a foot of his direct line of vision. Facial expressions without speaking can help create that bond.
A breastfeeding mom may begin the bonding process through touch immediately after baby is born and placed on her chest. Skin-to-skin contact transmits heat and makes the baby feel secure. Even fathers and adoptive parents can participate in this kind of bonding. Many moms worry about whether or not they're bonding properly with their babies. If you're concerned, then it's best to talk with a healthcare professional, whether it's at baby's first pediatrician visit or with your own doctor. If breastfeeding isn't going well or if postpartum depression seems to be an issue, then speak up. But experts say that good moms who meet their new babies' needs are probably doing a great job already.