The Top 5 Relationship Mistakes That Get In The Way Of Lasting Love

Cameron- You stated that you are happily uncommitted and single. This doesn't make you a bad person, but women who want a committed relationship should stay away from you. For you to date them anyway would be "not nice" and it would make them very unhappy to feel used by you. Votes: +0

WHat a bunch of stupid nonsense Votes: +2

HAHA what a bunch of drivel. Why bother publishing this shallow crap? Young folks do NOT believe any of this - talk to your grannies who have been married 45-50 years - they'll tell you the real truth. Votes: +0

Oh, please. What a load of crap. Votes: +0

Astrology. Seriously? Exactly how is that qualified and/or professional relationship advice? It makes everything else questionable. Votes: +0

I'm an introvert who spends much of my alone time playing video games. I don't talk with my family much, aside from my mom an hour every week or two. I don't bond with my coworkers after hours. Over the years I've had a hot-and-cold relationship with my best friend (of opposite gender) that's finally becoming consistently room temperature. I'm sentimental. I don't believe that the concept of "The Right One" refers to a single person so much as my own state of mind about a person. I don't get along well with my own gender. I'm eccentric. I'm a horrible snob about real intelligence, not the sort that implies business success. I run roughshod over all kinds of everyday etiquette concerning speech (like accidentally cutting people off or making slightly inappropriate jokes). I value the "mental" above the "emotional". I have a mental illness (complete with meds an all) that causes me occasionally to not relate to anyone directly (including with my partner) so that social contact becomes awkward and appears forced. By all rights, I can be defined as disrespectful, not nurturing, and horrible at relationships by this article.

In short, I'm a geek. This is what we look like, as much as anything else.

I've also had one 10-year, one 3-year, and one ongoing (2 years) relationship as an adult, and feel confident using my ex'es as a reference on the day we broke up (with a hug).

Perhaps it's more useful in the real world to use positive qualities (like, what extra stuff might show respect that's not on a script?) that don't brush everyone with one stroke. That person who turns their head toward you every time you speak, but doesn't have a history of solid non-romantic relationships might be far more respectful and considerate than this article believes.

So be it. My Vedic chart was probably wrong anyway. They can sense scientist-types a mile away. Votes: +3

I love my boyfriend very much but it's very hard to be with him. It feels like I work so hard to keep it but he doesn't care about anything. He doesn't make any effort to show he cares. He goes away any time he wants and stops communicating and when I ended it, he thought I was being unrealistic and thought nothing was wrong. I feel confused and very tired to be in this relationship and work so hard to always be criticised. When a partner is not appreciative of the other, it has to go down the bad road sooner or later no matter how much love there is. You can't have someone who always make you feel less. Votes: +2

simple, heres the problem women think of relationship such as the game monopoly, where you goal is to go in circles getting stuff and making materialistic dreams come true, for men it's closer to the game mouse trap

lots of pit falls and traps to fall in and in the end you generally alone :o

and yes stop reading into what guy say so much, we aren't rubix cubes closer to those 4 panel puzzle at mcdonalds play land, Votes: +0

Well, I guess I need to pack the kids and my stuff up and get a divorce, cause we are all 5 of those things! Votes: +1

i have recently gotten engaged and i am no longer happy and i dont know how to break things off without hurting him i mean i love him but im not ready to get married yet :( what should i do Votes: -1