The Pros and Cons of One-Night Stands

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Protect Yourself - Keep an eye on your drink, and if you leave with a guy, let your friends know where you are going and when you expect to be back. Pop a few condoms in your clutch - nothing makes a temporary experience more permanent than a baby or disease.

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Play it Cool - Even if you are new to one-night stands, don't tell your potential hookup, and don't expect a relationship. By keeping your expectations in check you can prevent possible disappointment.

Be Mysterious - The point of this exercise is to be anonymous and fleeting. Don't even use your real name if you can help it, and refrain from contacting him on social media post-coitus.

Don't Feel Guilty - Society has programmed women to feel bad about exploring and embracing their sexuality. You won't feel sexy or be able to enjoy the experience if you're worried about looking like a "slut" the whole time.

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written by JenniferB, April 12, 2012 09:31 am

What a stupid article. I wish I could get back the 5 minutes it took me to read it. Btw, if your conscience is telling you that it's wrong, it probably is.

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written by Anon, April 12, 2012 11:28 am

Pathetic. I know trolls love to add to 'Comments,' but this is almost like having one of them write the original article. Hard to believe it's not just all for show. Nothing is too cheap and tacky to get people to the page to look at the ads, I guess.

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written by Julie, April 13, 2012 04:46 pm

What a brain-dead and morally-dead piece of writing.
And it makes no difference whether you're a woman or a man. Sex needs to be part of a relationship between two people who actually know and like each other, who respect and care about each other : a loving relationship.
One night stands are the opposite: emotional emptiness, often followed by a sense of frustration - because it's so unfulfilling for one's soul.

But hey, if you can forget about having a soul who needs a soul mate, then acting like a sophisticated animal and calling it "fun" might be good enough.

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written by Bill, April 14, 2012 08:30 am

OK -- I guess I won't be looking for Julie tonight!

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written by Nonplussed, April 14, 2012 11:22 pm

"Guilty" about "embracing our sexuality." Bulls**t. The problem is embracing MALE sexuality and trying to become like them. Female sexuality is NOT THE SAME. WE are not the same. We are more emotional and denying that will not serve you well.

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written by greg, April 15, 2012 05:54 pm

no wonder so many girls these days have no morality and nobody values their virginity and decency.

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