The Pros and Cons of One-Night Stands

No it isn't a truly excellent article. As one person pointed out she left out the safety aspect of this kind of behavior. Also it is interesting to say you will never see this person again. How do you know that? Karma has a way of coming around again. Also it is a lot easier to just go out and have sex with anything that walks than in trying to develop a relationship with someone that will truly count. I doubt many people when they are old and dying think to themselves wow I really enjoyed those one night stands I had when I was younger. Especially if they are alone. Votes: +80

The decline of any society starts with something like Clark Gable
shocking the world with "Frankly my dear I don't give a damn" in
the 1939 movie 'Gone with the wind' and has increased to the 'Rappers'
Ho, b***h, common usage of the 'fcuk' word, and obama embracing his soul brothers and now taking $1,000,000.00 from foul mouthed Mahre using the 'cnut' word against Gov Palin, a decent woman.
Your daughters and obama's daughters are now commonly called 'Ho's and "b***hes" all all you gals will soon be commonly publicly known 'cnut's'. These kinds of lowbrow actions are ruining what 'was' the greatest country ever and will soon becom a Sodom (sodomy?) and Gomorrah like in (gonorrhea)...I am about outta here but you will live in this
'pig-sty' you call enlightened...
P.S. You gals who unwittingly or willingly endorse this life style are really proving what 'cnut' is as defined 'C'an't 'U'nderstand 'N'ormal 'T'hings"...Too bad, a decent life is so pleasant..... Votes: +7

I wouldn't loan my toothbrush to a complete stranger (or few others I know personally); why would I loan my body to one? Sounds like the writer of the article is trying to justify her own empty behavior. Votes: +217

The women of today are being turned into unpaid prostitutes. This was started by the drug infested hippies of the 1960s when the term "free love" became a popular slogan. Since then the traditional family has been under attack by those determined to reduce our society to the level of basic animal instincts without regard for behavioral stability. Votes: +118

The author of this article ia an obvious s**t. To justify her w***e activities as "having sex like a man" is further insulting and fails to mask the authors insecurities about meaninful relationships. Why would I, as a man, want to settle down with a female that has risked life, limb and cootch by sleeping with as many randon dudes as possible? This is the problem today, and why lots of men refuse to get married. We men are expected to be educated, work, pay the bills, house, car, providor, all that, while our "princess" gets to bask in the glory of bukkake parties and shower in strangers cum till she "feels" ready to slow down and commit. Why would I WANT to marry a w***e like that? WHY would I want a women who has taken diseased cum shots in her p***y from diseased club bangers and thugs? Oh yeah, cause once the looks and dudes from the club go away, then the b***h wants to settle down with one d**k and have a family and s**t, all the while with no intention to work, make any money, or stay faithful to her sucker husband. All these b***hes want to live and act like "men", but none of then want to pull the weight of a real man or face responsibility as one. The author pushes that mentality thru the whole article, the old "all men are pigs' adage, and we women are liberated and deserve better b.s. What a true w***e. Votes: +101

Rule 1 Our biological inhertiance programs women and men to want sex equally
Rule 2 Women began to have sex as frequently as men with the invention of the pill a totally normal desire
Rule 3 One night stands are an almost free lunch except for health hazards!
Rule 4 Can you and your future mate ;live with used cars;most people can an do;but who really does not prefer a new car.

Nothing in life is really free ;even true love must be earned! Votes: -3

Any semblance of morals is out the door. You wonder why you feel lonely or depressed after your one night stand? I think it's called guilt, which in most cases comes because of bad choices. Ladies, is this what you will teach your daughters? Well, you are a daughter too, it's best you start acting like it, rather than wondering why everyone thinks you're used baggage, with no self esteem, but there if someone needs a "lay". Votes: +32

This article is devoid of any sign of moral or emotional depth. It reads as though it was written by a teenager - it is self-serving and full of rationalization and reeks of someone who has not lived long enough to understand that sex is not the same thing for men and women. Consider that unfair if you want, but it is biology. The attempts at "anaylsis" of human behavior in this piece are superficial at best and laughable. This is supposed to be an "expert" commentary? What this artiicle lacks, aside from anything approaching a moral compa*s for human interaction, is wisdom. I thought people had learned something from the excesses of the 60's. Apparently not. I have worked with teens for the last 36 years, and I can't tell you how many young people are left shattered, cyncal and empty by this kind of behavior. I'm sorry, but it happens more to females than to males, whether you want that to be true or not. No to be crude, but the sex act is a different thing for males and females, with often very different psychological consequences. I can't understand why "feminists", for political reasons, would give young women advice that is damaging to them. Votes: +68

I believe the writer of this article is a pig, plain & simple. Votes: +38

There is no such thing as a one night stand. Believe it or not you will be emotionally tied to this person without even knowing it for a long time. The writer needs an education in human psychology before writing harmful things like this. Votes: +53

I'm really appalled by the comments. Most of the men here agree with the double standards, I'm guessing? I know it might sound fictional to you, but, sometimes, I want sex. And not a relationship. Just like some of you men, and other women. I'm fine with one or two one night stands. I have never been emotionally devastated, like some of you would like to believe. I'm certainly no more a s**t than any man who's ever had a one night stand. " UR NOT THE SAME AS US, YOU CANT HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS" what a joke. Votes: -5

How disgustingly grotesque. There's not enough condoms in the entire Walmart for any hosebag trolling for boners as encouraged by this article.. Simply skanky. Unless, of course, it's written by some college guy with an angle and a plan, in which case... brilliant? Votes: +20

what a load of crap. who writes this garbage Votes: +43

Well I am not sure why the media tries to tell women the can have guilt free one night stands.

As my girlfriend says women just can't separate the two, emotions and sex.

From my own personal experiences with women and one night stands it never was just that. There were emails, texts, phone calls all wanting to go out again. That is not a one night stand.

Personally I feel bad for women, who read this kind of stuff and go into the world thinking they will be able to have sex like a guy Votes: +24

This is sad, and what makes it worse is for a woman to be suggesting it. Where is your dignity? Maybe you should find out what sex actually is for. This is really pathetic. Votes: +38

I'm very encouraged by the intelligent and humorous remarks the commentors, average lay people, are making in response to this article. We are thankfully smarter than some of these idiots these days who are unfortunately given the job of journalist. Votes: +57

A s**t is what you will be !! Votes: +0

I'm so tired of the dehumanizing tripe these types of articles present. All men are not amoral sex addicts, and thankfully all women are not w***es. Promiscuity is not "exploring" sexuality, it is misusing it the same way an alcoholic misuses alcohol. It is this sort of drivel that has so severely damaged the fabric of American life that divorce, STDs, abortion, and ruined lives are so commonplace. The author is doing a disservice to anyone gullible enough to consider this "advice." The idea of cheapening oneself in order to enjoy a few fleeting moments of pleasure is vile. Don't want to feel like a s**t? Simple, don't behave as one. Want to be a real man? Don't act like a cad. Votes: +73

Got one word for you,"DISEASES." Votes: +22

i love how they say women have been programed by society, and that they should embrace their sexuality... just an excuse... trying to justify the w***e mentality... cheap, empty, article... stunned the author had time to write with such a selfish life style... Votes: +42