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Create Your Own 50 Shades of Grey: Here's How
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"Don't expect to put the Ben-Wa balls in and go shopping. Like Kegel exercises, you need to work slowly. I recommend the Duotone Balls with a string from Lilo. They come in sets of two sizes. Start with the lighter size and then go to the heavier size."
Speaking of heavy, Bettan also focuses on both the physical and psychological aspects of a submissive/dominant relationship. She explains the ins and outs of the BDSM dynamic to women so that they are prepared for it. The most important element - trust in a partner.
"It's very important to trust and feel safe. It's a lot of let go. That's what sex and orgasm are all about. To let go, you need to trust someone and feel comfortable. When it comes to the fetish world, you are surrendering yourself. It's about power, control and surrender."
Because activities often involve being restrained and whipped, it's of the utmost importance to be with someone who doesn't go to extremes and knows limits so that nobody gets hurt. And that goes for matters of the heart as well.
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From what I have read, this 50 Shades reads worse than stuff I wrote in high school and sounds even less mature. Go out and get the Sleeping Beauty trilogy by Anne Rice (aka A.N.Roquelare for that particular exploration of Beauty's awakening by her handsome prince not in the form of a kiss but by him deflowering her before binding her up naked to carry back to his castle to serve as his sex slave in a series that spans three book.) THAT is a real story as well as the taboo sexual titillation.
Amateurs. Free your mind, people. The rest will follow.
No wonder there is so much gun violence in America. Everyone is totally sexually repressed! What happened to make everyone suddenly go from the free love 60's to the disco 70's and Debbie Does Dallas only to end up back in the 50's again?
"Bless me, what DO they teach them at these schools?..."
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