Create Your Own 50 Shades of Grey: Here's How
"Fantasy allows us to explore taboos that we wouldn't otherwise explore. At that level, just sharing types of fantasies with a partner or having shared extreme fantasies, so much power lies with that."
For those who choose to act on their impulses, he suggests exploring restraint, domination and submission. Try different types of sensual stimulation with ice cubes or hot wax. But Kerner implores women and men to proceed with caution.
"If it is something you are looking to explore and you don't have any experience, it might be helpful to pick up a how-to book that walks you through or go to a local sex toy store. Go to a site like Babeland.com or Goodvibrations.com. They have 50 Shades kits that have handcuffs, arousal gels, blindfolds, crops, ticklers and all of that sort of stuff."
Trained sexual educator Iris Bettan has spent the last 15 years in the adult industry in a number of different capacities. These days the South Florida sex expert is leading seminars and workshops about sex and sexuality. She's currently training to become a worldwide holistic sex coach. With all of the hype surrounding 50 Shades of Grey, Bettan knew that there would be a demand for such a workshop...so she created one.
Bettan, who can be found on Facebook, tells MyDailyMoment.com, "Everybody is talking about 50 Shades of Grey. Everybody is reading it. It's changed sex in America for women. That's the reason I decided to do a workshop about it. This is something that everybody talks about and wants to know. In the workshop, people have time to come talk and explore."