5 Signs He's Cheating

I can't believe what I just read, what a bad article.

Holy... Unbelievable. Wow. Just... Wow.

Ok, the author should just jump of a building and die. I can't believe you think it's ok to write bulls**t of this caliber. Just die you terrible human being who preys on innocent paranoid women. Votes: +3

I think this article was okay and some of what it says is true concerning a cheating spouse. They do start taking vested interest more in how they look and exercise when cheating. Also hide credit card bills etc....take unexplaned work trips and lie about alot of stuff. My husband is a habitual cheater and I don't know why I keep staying should show me that I do not really matter. I thought I was a good wife all these years for the most part. My marriage is a mess and I don't have much hope lately of it ever getting better. Votes: -2

Give me a break. A good sign someone is cheating is they're dipping their pen in someone else's ink. Or vice versa. Votes: +0

I unfortunately related a lot to this article. My now (ex) boyfriend was moving for a new job, and we decided to do the long-distance thing. I was upset, but completely upfront and wanted to give it an honest try. As the days counted down, I noticed his cell phone was basically an extension of his arm, but miraculously whenever I got close, he shut it off, or put it down faceDOWN. In his last week here, he surprised me by telling me he was going to treat me to a trip to Italy, to compensate for all the pain he was putting me through and to have something to look forward to.
The night before he left, I found out he had already created a match.com profile in his new city, and was setting up dates before he even landed. I'm crushed, but this whole time my gut has been telling me something was wrong. Better to find out sooner rather than later :( Votes: +6

how about the lying b***hes that cheat evry day Votes: +0

lying b***hes cheat evry day Votes: +1

wow-what a load of crap. Votes: +1

problem is, b**ches read this crap and then believe it. that's the real problem. Votes: +0

Install a spy program on the computer? The good news is, most people who spy on their spouses don't go to jail or are even prosecuted. The bad news is, this is a felony under federal law as well as many state laws.

If you want proof of people being prosecuted criminally for installing a keylogger on a spouse's computer, google it. Votes: +1

The thought process whoever wrote this article sounds to be at the maturity level of an insecure twenty year old female who just had her heart broken.

The whole premise sounds more like a woman who is trying to spring a trap on a man at any move that seems out of some base line she has conceived in her own head.

Also, if you are committed to crossing boundaries by spying on your significant other, the relationship is already going downhill. You should gather your fortitude and work on your communication instead. Votes: +9

I just had my teeth whitened. Guess my wife is now going to think I am cheating according to the B.S. in this article. Votes: +0

bulls**t, i have done some of these things in a relationship, getting more dressed up, spoiling my boyfriend, sex habits changing!! however i have never cheated on him or even come close!! these are all just silly. Votes: +0

I am being treated for cancer and several other combined medical problems. Many of the things mentioned in this article I can't do any longer. You probably need to be more detailed and specific if you want to gain popularity as a writer. Votes: +1

Some of these comments infuriate me. I think if you read this article and you have brushed it off as nonsense, then you are in denial. The wolf is always at the door and if you are not having sex with your significant other, than somebody else is having sex with them. Women are so quick to say "not my husband".. "he would never cheat on me" etc etc. Do you really think your relationship is affair proof?? It isn't. People cheat. Always have and always will. If you turn a blind eye to possible signs... whether they are listed above or not, then don't act surprised when you find out they have been unfaithful. Votes: -3

im going threw this rite now and so it thank my boyfriend is cheating but we are trying ti work it out with each other but he is a jack a*s and is probaly cheating on me and reading this rilly did help me Votes: -4

there is a boy i met a month ago and he is hiding his phone and staying out later then he told me so i thank hes cheating on me Votes: -4

brake up with him girl Votes: +0

Or we could all accept that monogamy is an antiquated notion completely contrary to our biological goal of producing a succesful genetic continuation. ijs Votes: -3

If either of us wanted sex with another, I would expect the matter would be discussed ahead of time for the partner's approval or disapproval. That's what we've always done in our marriage of almost 50 years. By the way, neither of us has ever disapproved of a spouse's lover. Votes: -5

this has got to be one of the most vague and misleading articles i have read in a while. Please people, do not be narrow minded and believe what is said here. LADIES stop letting websites and cosmo tell you he's cheating on you or showing signs of cheating on you. It causes paranoia and unneccesary arguments. Every paragraph basically tells you that both extremes of a certain attitude are signs of cheating, wtf! If you feel a drift with your significant other dont worry, its ok. its normal! Majority of thw world just gets with somone that makes them feel better as opposed to getting with somone that is actually right for them. No one wants to take the time, EVERYONE IS TOO BUSY AND DESPERATE TO FIND LOVE fast, so dont act surprised when you cant figure out why you and your boy/girlfriend argue so much. You want to be happy, be true with yourself and most imnportantly love yourself first before you try to love somone else. Its about connection and sharing feelings. not about dependence and comfort Votes: +3

can u tell me if what r the signs or body lang. if you friend and husband are messing around or may in the future? Votes: +0

is this my wife trying to score a date that she believed might lead to sex? E is my wife, J is a high school friend she reconnected with on facebook... (captilization and punctuation is as was written, no emphasis added)
J: ah the strangeness of online dating
E: ohhh boy ..Aimee met her now husband on there!
J: i feel like rip van winkle
E: ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you'll do great
J: its all adventure
E: I can imagine...and you are a tough nut to crack!!! have you gone on any dates?
J: nope. just signed up last week. maybe tuesday
E: GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
J: im just kind of torn as to what i want. i really have to get laid badly but i don't want to meet up with any nutzies. and on the other hand i want the "soul mate" type. A gal i can just have as the companion ...so theres a conflict
E: Its a tough call...get laid and stay out of a commit for now...this is fresh
J: after my wife im gun shy
E: of course..thats why you should just have fun...go out and date..dont get heavy. well my friend...i hope it goes well!!!
J: again...its just more adventure
E: life is an adventure...I can see you living that 100% you might not have to look to far..your friend Barbara is captivated by you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
J: yeah well shes a nut
E: ha! she is sweet on you!!!
J: she was on my for a while
E: literally?
J: so I decided to test her boundaries/get rid of her...no just commenting constantly...so i said to her... so barabara, when are we gonna f*ck?
E: you are way to smart..I would never f*ck with you in that way!!! you would make minced meat of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
J: it had the effect of a big bomb being dropped with barely any casualties
E: the best kind! but...she is back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
J: right. shes back
E: does she know you are "single"
J: she actually kicked me in the balls when I was 10
E: ha!
J: in the EDITED public school yard.
E: do I know her?
J: probably not. EDITED was her name.
E: she is creepin on you...the comments on your pix were WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
J: she is attractive and i was semi kidding
E: nope...i dont know her
J: yeah she's a dumb bell
E: arent the all, get used to it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
J: so annoying. but she does somehow understand what im trying to get at aesthetically with my art
E: its hard being admired...take it for what it is...longing from a freak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! still good right?
J: she actually articulated it lucidly once. she didnt know what she was saying, but i did. i only want to be admired by people "better" than me
J: everyone else...well i dont really care
E: why i would never mess with you verbally. you are way to well spoken and can put it in writing far to quickly!!!
J: why dont we go out one night
E: I will set up a night when I am at my Moms and we can meet up...that would be great...i have to warn you...i just quit smoking after 25 years (gross) so I am squishy right now to say the least!!!! Weight Watchers is actually starting this week, so no fat jokes are allowed
J: ok, well I wont go out for a cigarette. squishy's fine. plus you're a familiar
E: nope you can...just hold it in and blow it in my face!! I went to the beach this W/E with my 2 B/F's and for the 1st time ever was the non smoker...it f*cking sucks
J: you probably have a nervous thing. nervous oral fixation
E: nope...just f*cking love smoking!
J: i had it once too but it seems to have subsided
E: good..dont do it
J: ive never thought of it as a nicotine addiction. always more pyschological to me.
E: i want one now!!!
J: just stick your thumb in your mouth. haha. sorry to bring it up. wait you brought it up.
E: I wish it was that easy
they go on discussing his job, and how IT people and non-creative people s*ck.
E: I must say Good Night.... until next time.
J: ok. have a better one
E: smile Jeff Votes: +0

This article is unbelievably sexist...giving her HIS credit card telling her to go out buy something????
If a woman does that shid...she deserves to have no relationship anyway...I find this article disgusting, retarded to no end and especially NO HELP to anyone who really needs it. ACK..... Votes: +0

All of these happened to me in my marriage- every last one. Looking back it was all there, I just tried hard not to see. It hurts- its them not really you. Divorce them, move on- there are so many other fish out there more worthy of you. Votes: +3

In most states, it is a crime to spy, via keylogging software on your spouse. You might think not, but it is a felony under current federal guidelines. It's called wire-tapping, and though you aren't exactly tapping someone's phone, you are, in essence doing the same thing by snooping. If the trust issues are so bad, I'd recommend a counselor, instead of software. If you are really suspicious, offer your spouse an "open" relationship, and guage their reaction to your offer. It will tell you all you need to know. Votes: +4

This article is really bad. Votes: +2

This is a horrible article. If you think your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on you, figure out why you think that, without spying on them, then talk with them about it. If you find you can't talk with them about, if you aren't yet married, you should consider breaking up, because you shouldn't be in a relationship where you are worried about the other person cheating. If you are married, thus committed to the relationship, get help from a couple that you trust not to gossip about the situation. Never resort to spying, and if you are seriously committed to the relationship, do everything you can to resolve the feeling without breaking trust, just in case you aren't be cheated on. Votes: +2

Most of you surely have made good points. A lot of what we Experience, during our life, Physically, Mentally & emotionally, causes us to react in ways that May or May Not be in our best interest. I am a 42 yr old Black Female, In America & My Life Experiences has caused me to GO SOLO... I choose who I deal with. Be it Sexual, Friends Only Or More. At The End of The Day, I make the choice Ultimately. No disrespect to any ones sexual preferences, But I have gay male friends & male Transsexual friends that ALL agree that, Gay men are not gonna tell their heterosexual girl friend/Wife that their BI-Sexual or even Predominantly Gay.

I see it as.. This is My Life, My Heart & My Happiness out in the open, as if I’m a heterosexual(straight) female sheep in the woods with a pack of Low Down & Down Low (Bi-Sexual) Wolves. Most of them are Damaged from life’s tragedies. Most of them don’t Love God Almighty 1st & Love themselves 2nd. Therefore they cant possibly know how or What it means to TRULY LOVE SOMEONE ELSE. So My # 1 Rules is to Protect Myself in Any & every Way I Can... Think About It... If You Dont Guard & Protect, You & Your Heart. Then WHO IS GONNA DO IT FOR YOU? Remember You & You Alone are Responsible for your Actions & The choices You Make For Yourself. So Be Cautious not to let your Heart Overrule your mind of Common Sense. For Example: Your mind usually say, “Dont Overlook this problem & just let this go" BUT your heart say,"You Love Him/Her, just overlook this & it will blow over & go away".. Now if you follow just your heart of Love Without putting your mind of Common Sense, to the test. Then YOU have just Set Yourself Up For, Heart break & Pain. You Must Know, Your mind & common sense is usually smarter than your heart. Love sometimes causes us to be blind to the facts, in front of us. So it is IMPORTANT for You to be In Control Of What You Allow Yourself to Go Through. Never Forget, Getting Out Of ANY Bad Situation IS ALWAYS THE BEST CHOICE FOR YOURSELF. I pray that one day, We can all learn to love & Respect each other, in a God Fearing Way.. Then this world would be a wonderful/Beautiful place to live in. Until then May God Bless Us All.. Votes: +1

The article is complete garbage! if you've ever been in a relationship where your partner has cheated on you, you will know that the situation is really complex and the signs are completely different. The signs are in the eyes, in the everyday responses, in the connection that withers in everyday interactions...and so on....although I daresay it's different for everybody. Votes: +8