5 Signs He's Cheating

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1. Changes in physical appearance and upkeep - we all know the longer a couple is in a relationship, the more comfortable they become with each other. Looking your absolute best at all times can often takes a back seat when you're just hanging around at home or going to sleep after a long day. Lingerie getting traded in for sweats sound familiar?

If your husband begins to pay more attention to his physical appearance and is doing things like buying new clothes, wearing new more cologne, tanning, joining a gym or getting his teeth whitened - there's a good chance it isn't for you. If he's not already seeing someone else, he may be readying himself to find another. Unless there's a big event on the horizon like a wedding or reunion, ask him what's up with the sudden interest in manscaping.

2. Being too nice - this one might sound a bit silly. Who doesn't want their partner to show them extra affection and attention? However, if this attention is out of the ordinary and doesn't seem to be sparked by anything in particular, he could be making up for guilty feelings and/or distracting you from his inappropriate behavior. Showering you with gifts, calling and/or texting you multiple times a day to "check in" or "say hello," planning expensive dinners and dates, sending you shopping with his credit card, going on a spontaneous vacation -- these are all red flags. Don't be blinded by the rush of that new wallet and matching shoes or the relaxation of a spa visit - find out what's really behind the excess of generous gestures.

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written by anonymous, May 21, 2012 12:12 pm

alicia, this woman was supposed to be a good friend of yours, and your husband was supposed to honour the vows he took when he stood up in that church and told you he wanted you forever and always, i would advise you to stear clear of this womann she commited the ultimate betrayal of friendship and she should have had more sense than to sleep with your husband... now someone help me please, what to do when you find messages on a tagged account from your fiance to other girls calling them sexy, telling them that if theyre looking for fun add him on blackberry messenger and asking them if they like sending pics, then your brother tells you that he has been cheating on you with an ex but she denies it and the evidence doesnt look legitimate. when he swears on his grandads grave that he hasnt cheated on you but downloads porn constantly and when you offer yourself practically on a silver platter he turns you down... what am i supposed to do??

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written by Nathan, May 24, 2012 05:06 pm

If your partner or spouse is reading your e-mail and monitoring your internet usage, it is worth ending it immediately. Aside for physical violence, invasion of privacy is the best sign of an evil and abusive personality. It also is a legal offense. After you dump the person, make sure to tell the next partner of this person why exactly you ended the relationship or marriage.

I have a friend who was victim of such a demented person. The unauthorized reading of his e-mail was the last straw, and he immediately ended the relationship (and impending marriage). It would have been nice to put this woman in his prison or at least get her fired for what she did, but he didn't do it. In return, she frequently wished him to die. That is how I imagine the author pf this article too.

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written by Realist2407, May 31, 2012 06:26 am

Who ever takes this list as gospel or seriously is a weak minded idiot and should not be in a relationship.This is a better inquery if you become jaded,untrusting and invade someones privacy who's really the villian? P.S. If your too spudid to figure it out grab a mirror

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written by Rita, June 09, 2012 12:24 pm

From time to time, life gets boring,stressed,people worry about time pa*sing away form them, are they still up to it, and all those emotional things that plague human beings....happens to both sexes, not just men, although women are better at accepting things and are often too busy to have time to ponder the alternatives...what with kids and jobs and various obligations outside of their jobs. Hence, they look for escapism and it's easiest to find in flirting or quick relationships with someone who has 10 minutes worth of sympathy for your situation.........voila, you think you care for that person......maybe you do, probably you don't really....it's just that they happen to be there on a low day in a low moment. Big deal.
When things suck in general, change yourself, your hair, your clothes, your hours, your job, whatever you can change, change it......not your spouse, unless there a jerk anyway.......the problem is usually with yourself! Change your sleeping atmosphere, your diet, your activities, get all the superficial BS obligations out of the way, invite your partner to go to Vegas or where ever you decide.....get away from the BS....suddenly, they look pretty good, your laughing, your screwing and you don't need a*shat in the next desk to fulfill your life...you already have a life. You just havne't been in touch with it lately......it's about yourself!

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written by PKN, June 13, 2012 08:14 am

This is the first time posting a message to a article... Had to say something.. WHERE DID YOU GET THIS GUY AND I HOPE HE DID NOT GET PAID TO BE ON THE SHOW. When a male / female stops looking at someone looks or body they might as well pack it in 6' under. RIGHT I'm going to fess up to my wife that the girl in front of me has a nice butt and honey my eyes are always looking at big butts.............. Give me a break

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written by STEVE, June 13, 2012 08:41 am

This is 99% complete crap. I cant believe anyone would right this. I do 85% of these things and I love my wife who is way younger then I am and way to pretty for me. Its my only marriage, its will be 4 years in Aug and we have been together for 6. We spend almost every second together and it would be impossible for either one of us to cheat. We also work together and drive to work together, I do most of the things on this list. Suprise vacations, shopping, attention, popping in her office to say hello, Groom, buy new cologne all the time, manscape, buy her new clothes, buy myself new clothes, and pretty much do a lot of the things this article says is a sign of cheating. Remember over 40% of us never cheat even if we are not in love. This article is the worst garbage I have read in a long long time. I explore the paranoid people out there to laugh it off and realize its garbage man hating nonsense. Shame on them for publishing such big stupid lies.

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written by to You're crazy, June 24, 2012 12:30 am

My friend (whose e-mail was spied on) did NOT give her his e-mail pa*sword. The lady installed a program on his computer (when he was not around) that captured all his website his pa*swords. Had she wanted, she could have also stolen his money. She was not interested in that, but she surely was interested in his e-mails, which she read for months. Then she started quoting to him verbatim from his own e-mails. In short, what she did for several months was illegal and abusive.

Just like her, you like abuse and breaking the law. I don't, even if you call me paranoid. In fact, being labeled paranoid by someone like you is an honor. Given what you write, I would be worried if I were praised by you.

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written by ed, July 03, 2012 08:03 pm

I can't believe what I just read, what a bad article.

Holy... Unbelievable. Wow. Just... Wow.

Ok, the author should just jump of a building and die. I can't believe you think it's ok to write bulls**t of this caliber. Just die you terrible human being who preys on innocent paranoid women.

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written by Kate, July 12, 2012 11:42 am

I think this article was okay and some of what it says is true concerning a cheating spouse. They do start taking vested interest more in how they look and exercise when cheating. Also hide credit card bills etc....take unexplaned work trips and lie about alot of stuff. My husband is a habitual cheater and I don't know why I keep staying should show me that I do not really matter. I thought I was a good wife all these years for the most part. My marriage is a mess and I don't have much hope lately of it ever getting better.

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written by adam, July 12, 2012 04:04 pm

Give me a break. A good sign someone is cheating is they're dipping their pen in someone else's ink. Or vice versa.

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written by Katy, July 16, 2012 09:57 am

I unfortunately related a lot to this article. My now (ex) boyfriend was moving for a new job, and we decided to do the long-distance thing. I was upset, but completely upfront and wanted to give it an honest try. As the days counted down, I noticed his cell phone was basically an extension of his arm, but miraculously whenever I got close, he shut it off, or put it down faceDOWN. In his last week here, he surprised me by telling me he was going to treat me to a trip to Italy, to compensate for all the pain he was putting me through and to have something to look forward to.
The night before he left, I found out he had already created a match.com profile in his new city, and was setting up dates before he even landed. I'm crushed, but this whole time my gut has been telling me something was wrong. Better to find out sooner rather than later :(

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written by f**kb***hes, July 16, 2012 06:44 pm

how about the lying b***hes that cheat evry day

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written by f**kb***hes, July 16, 2012 06:46 pm

lying b***hes cheat evry day

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written by man, July 20, 2012 06:52 am

wow-what a load of crap.

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written by man, July 20, 2012 06:54 am

problem is, b**ches read this crap and then believe it. that's the real problem.

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written by RicoTorpe, July 20, 2012 08:45 pm

Install a spy program on the computer? The good news is, most people who spy on their spouses don't go to jail or are even prosecuted. The bad news is, this is a felony under federal law as well as many state laws.

If you want proof of people being prosecuted criminally for installing a keylogger on a spouse's computer, google it.

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written by Ryan, July 21, 2012 02:07 pm

The thought process whoever wrote this article sounds to be at the maturity level of an insecure twenty year old female who just had her heart broken.

The whole premise sounds more like a woman who is trying to spring a trap on a man at any move that seems out of some base line she has conceived in her own head.

Also, if you are committed to crossing boundaries by spying on your significant other, the relationship is already going downhill. You should gather your fortitude and work on your communication instead.

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