5 Signs He's Cheating

This is nothing short of promoting paranoia and actually condoning spying and "checking up" on your significant other. If you have trust issues, chances are you are overcompensating for that by "noticing changes" in the relationship. Do not forget, everyone naturally has a renewing cycle they like to go through. Basically, if a person is reasonably intelligent and has a firm grasp on their own self and even spirituality, it is likely they may get bored from the same routines.
Being overly nice is sometimes a direct reaction to someone seeming upset more than usual. Think about that one. I am an empath, and I always try to strike a balance and give extra effort to cheer someone up. I also try to give extra attention if I'm feeling particularly grateful toward that someone.

Also: extra wealth that doesn't go to myself will certainly go to my significant other. This is not a "sign" of anything in particular. There could be 1000 or more reasons you could come up with. There is nothing concrete about any of these a*sumptions. They are simply possibilities.

These are all valid POSSIBILITIES, but the chance is EQUAL or GREATER that it is actually someone that LOVES YOU and wants to make the relationship feel renewed. Either way, if there is secrecy on either party's part, it is a set up for failure.

IMPORTANT: Signing into someone's computer and/or email is the same as going through their phone and personal belongings. It is a violation of personal property. They can press charges if it becomes a problem.

Learn to communicate. Trust is important, so either make the choice to trust the person, or build that trust. Looking for "clues" is making it far too easy to avoid confrontation, and eventually leads to social disorders. Overcoming your fears and facing them in a mature manner is recommended.

I give this entire article 2 thumbs DOWN. There is far better advice out there from people that know what they're talking about. Votes: +161

I agree with Chris, people do go through changes. I realized I have been letting myself go and decided to spruce up my appearance, not just for husband but for me! I enjoy getting compliments from people, make me feel good, doesn't mean I'm looking to have an affair. Votes: +74

Good luck finding a man who will take steps to improve a relationship without falling into these criteria. Or take a job working with computers. Or is simply a geek who likes to play games as his main hobby after working all day as a programmer on the internet. Or spend a great deal of time working on articles for his blog.

Yeah. Those are *exactly* the men you want to weed out. Knock off everyone with a car < 2 years old, for good measure. Especially if it's red.

How about some criteria actually backed up with evidence? Like lying about whereabouts repeatedly, Votes: +61

so If your guy is nice to you, he's cheating on you, or if he's testy, he's also cheating on you. Does he take care of himself? yes? then he's totally cheating on you. He uses the computer a lot? …Cheater? Does he have a pulse? That could also be a sign he's cheating on you Votes: +160

If you have resorted to using programs to spy on your partner, the relationship is already over. Trust is what makes a relationship work. I have ended relationships were I was getting asked all kinds of questions about everything I was doing(not cheating by the way) and it became clear thats all she was worried about...to the point that we couldn't live normall together. Sure, you don't want to be getting cuckolded and not know it, but its even worse to be so obsessed with this fear that your relationship deteriorates, you violate your partner's privacy, and lose the relationship that way. Monitoring my email with an "inexpensive program" would get you axed from my life just as quickly as cheating on me. Votes: +60

Whatta paranoid piece of journalistic crap! Women... Pay attention to your man's sexual desires. You already know them! JUST DO IT! If you drop off the pleasure, he will go elsewhere. It is not some kinda mystery! If you go from 98 lbs on the first date, to 198 lbs after a few years, YOU WILL LOSE HIM!
'Nuff said! Votes: +13

looks like who ever wrote this has quite a experience in this matter ..this article is a piece of junk..no wonder why the marriage rates are falling across the country....maybe the author had an overdose the night before this article was written or maybe got caught the last time around.. Votes: +47