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5 Signs He's Cheating
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3. Using the Internet non-stop - Who isn't consumed by social networking sites and funny videos on YouTube these days? If your spouse is going to the extreme and staying on the computer until all hours of the night or his iPhone seems to have become permanently attached to his hand, you could have cause to worry. Many men seek and start relationships with other women online in chat rooms, via instant messaging or on social networking sites. In fact, there are even Web sites set up like typical online dating services -- except they cater specifically to men looking to cheat.
If you do a quick spot-check of your computer browser's history, only to find that it's recently been wiped clean, or if an email account you used to have access to suddenly has a new password, you could have a cheater in your midst. If you're computer savvy, there are many inexpensive monitoring programs that record keystrokes, passwords and recently visited sites. However, prepare yourself for what you might find.
4. Changes in your sex life - this sign can go one of two ways. Either your partner appears to lose interest and you stop having sex altogether, or your partner has an unusually high sex drive. If you normally have an active sex life, a lack of interest could be a symptom of an affair. It might mean he having his needs satisfied elsewhere or that his guilt over what (or who) he is doing makes him embarrassed or ashamed to be intimate with you. On the other hand, if you find that his sex drive is through the roof, he may be trying to overcompensate for his infidelity and distract you from his recent illicit behavior. In the same vein, beware if he starts requesting to use condoms if you normally do not.
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Being overly nice is sometimes a direct reaction to someone seeming upset more than usual. Think about that one. I am an empath, and I always try to strike a balance and give extra effort to cheer someone up. I also try to give extra attention if I'm feeling particularly grateful toward that someone.
Also: extra wealth that doesn't go to myself will certainly go to my significant other. This is not a "sign" of anything in particular. There could be 1000 or more reasons you could come up with. There is nothing concrete about any of these a*sumptions. They are simply possibilities.
These are all valid POSSIBILITIES, but the chance is EQUAL or GREATER that it is actually someone that LOVES YOU and wants to make the relationship feel renewed. Either way, if there is secrecy on either party's part, it is a set up for failure.
IMPORTANT: Signing into someone's computer and/or email is the same as going through their phone and personal belongings. It is a violation of personal property. They can press charges if it becomes a problem.
Learn to communicate. Trust is important, so either make the choice to trust the person, or build that trust. Looking for "clues" is making it far too easy to avoid confrontation, and eventually leads to social disorders. Overcoming your fears and facing them in a mature manner is recommended.
I give this entire article 2 thumbs DOWN. There is far better advice out there from people that know what they're talking about.