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5 Signs He's Cheating
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1. Changes in physical appearance and upkeep - we all know the longer a couple is in a relationship, the more comfortable they become with each other. Looking your absolute best at all times can often takes a back seat when you're just hanging around at home or going to sleep after a long day. Lingerie getting traded in for sweats sound familiar?
If your husband begins to pay more attention to his physical appearance and is doing things like buying new clothes, wearing new more cologne, tanning, joining a gym or getting his teeth whitened - there's a good chance it isn't for you. If he's not already seeing someone else, he may be readying himself to find another. Unless there's a big event on the horizon like a wedding or reunion, ask him what's up with the sudden interest in manscaping.
2. Being too nice - this one might sound a bit silly. Who doesn't want their partner to show them extra affection and attention? However, if this attention is out of the ordinary and doesn't seem to be sparked by anything in particular, he could be making up for guilty feelings and/or distracting you from his inappropriate behavior. Showering you with gifts, calling and/or texting you multiple times a day to "check in" or "say hello," planning expensive dinners and dates, sending you shopping with his credit card, going on a spontaneous vacation -- these are all red flags. Don't be blinded by the rush of that new wallet and matching shoes or the relaxation of a spa visit - find out what's really behind the excess of generous gestures.
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Being overly nice is sometimes a direct reaction to someone seeming upset more than usual. Think about that one. I am an empath, and I always try to strike a balance and give extra effort to cheer someone up. I also try to give extra attention if I'm feeling particularly grateful toward that someone.
Also: extra wealth that doesn't go to myself will certainly go to my significant other. This is not a "sign" of anything in particular. There could be 1000 or more reasons you could come up with. There is nothing concrete about any of these a*sumptions. They are simply possibilities.
These are all valid POSSIBILITIES, but the chance is EQUAL or GREATER that it is actually someone that LOVES YOU and wants to make the relationship feel renewed. Either way, if there is secrecy on either party's part, it is a set up for failure.
IMPORTANT: Signing into someone's computer and/or email is the same as going through their phone and personal belongings. It is a violation of personal property. They can press charges if it becomes a problem.
Learn to communicate. Trust is important, so either make the choice to trust the person, or build that trust. Looking for "clues" is making it far too easy to avoid confrontation, and eventually leads to social disorders. Overcoming your fears and facing them in a mature manner is recommended.
I give this entire article 2 thumbs DOWN. There is far better advice out there from people that know what they're talking about.