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5 Signs He Is the Right One For You
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Whether your instincts are saying he is or isn't the one, it's an important consideration. Many times our instincts are right. Of course, our best instincts can be wrong and someone can present themselves to be something that they are not. This is why intuition is only one sign to consider in determining if he is the right one for you.
Sign #5 He Is the Right One - You Can Be Yourself With Him
You will not be appreciated or valued by a man who tries to change you or who cannot love you, flaws and all. So if you can be who you are when you are with him, he might just be the right one for you. This means he not only accepts the good in you, but also your weaknesses and faults. When you can be yourself, you will experience a sense of freedom. You will have confidence in knowing that he accepts you just as you are.
When taking these 5 signs into consideration, you will have a good idea if he is actually the right guy for you.
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1. You respect one another. Isn't that a minimum requirement just to be friends with somebody?
2. He has qualities you're looking for. Hmm, how do you know you're looking for the right qualities and maybe what you're looking for will change over time. It's better to be with someone who has good qualities than what you think you're looking for. Greater chance for the long term.
3. You share the same values. Again, what makes you think your values are so hot? Of course, if his values are not those of a good person you should stay away. But what if his values are better than yours? Perhaps you should do some soul searching and personal growth.
4. Your intuition tells you. Intuition is important, but you still need to think about why your intuition is telling you something.
5. You can be yourself with him. Ouch, why aren't you being yourself when you date other guys? It shows a certain lack of maturity.
Lasting relationships come down to this: (1) Is he or she a fundamentally good person - not just in how he treats you, but in how he treats others, especially those he doesn't even know. (2) Can you commit to him or her? In other words are you willing to work out ANY problem that comes up EVER? Really think about it. Bailing later is not an option. (3) Do you think that he or she can commit to you? That they are willing to work out any problem that comes up EVER?
If you can't answer yes to the above questions, they aren't "the one".