4 Reasons to Dump Him

That sounds like my wife. Guess I'll dump her. Votes: +47

This is one LAME article. Any woman who'd hook up with a loser as described in this man-hating article is a loser that a real man would run from as fast as possible. It isn't all about YOU chickies. Votes: +54

Briana is correct, it's a responsibility, it's something you have to work at improving, it grows as you and your partner grow. I have been married for 17 years and we have had good and bad times but I would not change a thing. I have a great wife and wonderful little boy. I'm very blessed. Votes: +38

THIS ARTICLE SHOULD SIMPLY BE STATED THAT U SHOULD "RESPECT" YOUR PARTNER AND GET RESPECT MUTUALLY. IT SHOULD APPLY BOTHWAYS TO MEN AND WOMEN AND POINT OUT THAT ONE CANNOT FIX A PROBLEM IF THEY ARE NOT TOLD ABOUT IT. SO IF U TELL UR PARTNER U FELL DISRESPECTED OR WHATEVER AND THEY CONTINUE TO MAKE EFFORTS TOWARDS POSITVE CHANGES U BOTH AGREE ON THEN THE RELATIONSHIP IS WORTH SAVING. THIS DOES NOT MEAN TO TRY AND CHANGE THE PERSON-WHO THEY ARE- JUST THE BEHAVIORS OF HOW EACH OF U INTERACT WITH ONE ANOTHER. Votes: +20

#1 reason to leave a website- you have to scroll through 6 pages for a list of 4 reasons. jesus christ Votes: +88

This is the most stupid article I have read in recent memory. Women can be just as bad, if not worse than what is stated herein. Not all men are "dogs" just like not all women are sweet and innocent. Having a vagina does not entitle you to anything or make you special. I have wonderful women in my life - mother, sisters, wife and daughter, and I love and appreciate them all, but this whole entitlement thing is played-out. Votes: +85

women go crazy, do not marry, move in, expect love, loyalty, sex, friendship, respect or support. when things happen like miscarriage in first trimester, female problems, infertility, idiots at work with divorce contagion wishes and on and on, you will end up like me wondering what happened to cause her loss of sanity. i still love her 30 years later and don't have a clue why 13 years of marriage and 4 more years before exclusive relationship went poof. i blame myself still and the guilt is unbearable. she died in a car crash 2000 miles away 6 years ago and i had hoped she would let some clue or send a note telling me what i did, but she did not. i worked hard, didn't drink, was faithful, served in the military 2 years, gave up a commission and pilots wings by turning down the commission for her. women today view marriage as a temp convenience for them to steal your house and pension, don't do it. Votes: +36

This article sucks. My husband does not help me out around the house. Know why? He has a demanding career that requires a lot of travel and a lot of double shifts. I am an at-home mom, and part of my JOB is to take care of the housekeeping. But when he comes back from his business trip I'm serving him with divorce papers because the unsupportive bastard doesn't pick up his dirty socks! Way to unfairly point the finger at guys... some of the biggest slobs I know are women. My male friends are much less self-absorbed than the female ones, thereby allowing them to be MORE supportive. And as for not getting along with family members or friends - all the in-law/friend drama I know of in my social circle is the result of the WIFE'S issues, not the husband's! I feel like I just read something out of a high school newspaper. Ugh! Votes: +94

This article makes me want to puke. And we wonder why the divorce rate is so high... Crap like this says not to forgive, which is far more self centered than what this article talks about. Yes, if you're dating, usually it's pretty obvious if a relationship should end, but if you're actually committed to a relationship, a real one, not simply extracting as much pleasure, money or whatever from the other person and moving on, occasionally you might have to forgive something that you don't want to. Get over it. Life isn't going to be easy or fun all the time, and that includes in a relationship. Perhaps, though, if you put what you have into the relationship and try to give to the other person, rather than being concerned so much about what you might get out of it, they might do the same and it will be much happier for both. Whoever wrote this nonsense needs to get a clue. Votes: +54

Most of what is said in this article could be used by either gender for ending a relationship. Each of us (chooses our own) friends, lovers, and spouse. In order to fully address a bad relationship I think it's important to figure out why one has selected someone who makes them unhappy in life. No matter how you slice it at some point she/he said "yes" to this person.
The only way to improve things is by learning from the mistakes that were made and using those lessons to make better (choices)in the future. If you go to the store to buy and apple but purchase an onion instead...Whose fault is that? We are responsible for our decisions/choices. When we acknowledge this it empowers us because we can learn to make better choices for ourselves in the future.
Last but not least it's important to realize whenever you give advice that "life is a personal journey". Truth be told there are no universal "deal breakers". Each of us gets to create our own list! Unfortunately not remembering this fact frustrates friends and family when they advise someone to end a relationship. For every reason we might dump someone there are people who are willing to stay and endure those very circumstances. All you can say is what YOU would do and continue to support them regardless of their choices. Votes: +16

Who said anything about divorce? The writer used the word "dump" which implies a *dating* relationship, NOT marriage. Dating is not marriage. It's okay to dump a dating partner if things don't work out. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Why does everyone get all upset the minute anyone suggests that a woman should dump her boyfriend? He's not a husband, just a boyfriend. So what? Don't most people have a few boyfriends or girlfriends before settling down? Of course if you are already married to the person you should try to work things out. But before you get to that point you have to have STANDARDS! You don't want to marry the first person you date just because people think it's "mean" that you might want to dump him. If you don't want to marry him --- dump him! How else are you going to find someone more suitable? Votes: +1

In 2012, its the Man's formal imperative to protect his wealth because its the only thing that keeps women from thinking that you are to be dumped at the first "sign" of looking like You might need "their help" monetarily. Yes, its always okay for a Woman to need a Man's money, but its almost never okay for a Man to need a Woman's money. It is a double standard and there is alot of social programming designed to discourage Women helping Men. So, now, I simply create a boilerplate budget towards what I will in-fact "let the girlfriend or wife manipulate out of me." However, if they ask, want, or even need more moneu, I don't care what they say: "not a penny more because without my money, i'm worthless and on the chopping block anyways, so I'd rather breakup and "have my money" than have her breakup (dump me) because she thinks i'm needy. " And, if she reads an article like this and decides to dump me; doesn't matter. Compa*sion from Women these days is a myth. It's all business; even the breakups...... Votes: +44

I can't believe this article! ARGH! My "Ex" Wife was 45 when I met her. I was 40. She had "8" YEARS of marriage experience as compared to this being my first marriage. She either wrote this article or helped you develop it. Why? Because your article is so biased that its literally disgusting to have to sit here after all that crap that she put ME THROUGH, then have to read all this dribble about "Dumping People," "Getting Rid of People," and the like. I mean, "that" is "exactly" the problem today. Women sitting around listening to each other discuss these problems, giving each other this strict liability criteria for a human being who happens to be a male, and having almost no tolerance in the equation where you should be saying, "think about what YOU may be doing that you began doing as soon as the long-term relationship was transmuted into "Marriage." That's when all the crap started for me. All of a sudden, Wife starts putting up boundries, establishing, and enforcing an array of "hidden" bylaws for the marriage that were NOT DISCUSSED prior to the marriage going into effect. ...Yes, that's the kind of crap that many women do that gets them into so much trouble, because a Guy wants to trust his Partner, but often realizes too late that the deck is stacked, the game is rigged from the outset.

And that is why its important to simply "live with a woman for a very long time before you ever marry her because "She Does Have A Time-Sensitive Agenda" regardless of what she will ever tell you to your face. Then, after you realize that if you've in-fact been played, these women have a whole other array of victimized "oh poor me" agendas, designed to characterize "anything that you may do" as a serious conduct or behavior problem. ...First, the silent meetings, then the setting of the stage that leads to the countdown, then the silent decision to break it off emotionally, then the breakoff, then the cheating, then the silence, and then the split that includes the fighting that He "must do" to show the world that he must be dumped, for she is the victim in everything that went wrong.

Nope. ....I used to be a VERY nice guy. Now: I will no longer care ever ever ever again when she cries or wines in the beginning of the relationship about anything, and if she starts that crap of pulling away like the last one did, then I'm simply going to do what a Woman would do, and start another relationship before I walk out because that is exactly how women work. You see, it's okay for Women in their mind to have a literal change of heart. So, they simply rationalize their feelings, even if it is at your expense. Doesn't matter what you have invested in terms of money, time, or effort. All bets are off, and that if why its a Man's imperative to protect his wealth because its the only thing that keeps women from thinking that you are to be dumped at the first "sign" of looking like You might need "their help" monetarily. Votes: +47

After reading this article, I was amazed that anyone would need to read this to leave their partner. Yes, it is true women, you all are not innocent of these accusations either. Being with my partner for 7 years, i have learned 1 thing. Do not take relationship advise from journalists. Example: My fiance and i both work, both bring in money, but i am the one who does all the cooking, all the cleaning and all the yard maintanence. At first, it frustrated me. Then i took a look at it, i am highly organized. Let's say she liked to have things a certain way, but i prefered it a different way. Arguement in the making. However, with her not "helping around the house" i get to have everything just the way i like it, in return she gets to relax and focus on school. So you see, just because something says its "wrong" and you "should leave" does not mean that is the final word. Come on people, think for yourselves! Votes: +31

You say, "Don't blindside him." Then, you say don't get fooled when he tells you he is going to change. I am a man, and I can tell you that if you have to tell a man what is wrong with him, this is the typical attempt of the female to change a man to her liking. It won't work. If he is not right from the get go he will never be. Men don't change because a woman wants him to change. Find a man who meets your criteria and to whom you meet his; otherwise, don't get involved in the first place. 50% of American marriages end in divorce, to the great detriment of the development of the children. I am convinced that the principal reason for this divorce rate is that women overlook "faults" during courtship because they convince themselves they will get him to change once they are married. Big mistake. Never happens. Votes: +26

This is s**t. I am very tired of this kind of crap. It all started with "Married With Children" and carried over to "Everybody Loves Raymond". Who would want to be a father, or a husband when the norm is to be treated like s**t! If I was Ray, I would trade that b***hy wife in. Votes: +40