When it comes to turn-ons, some people are...shall we say...unique in their preferences. With the advent of erotica like 50 Shades of Grey, all kinds of kinkiness and fetishes are going more mainstream. A fetish, or paraphilia in scientific terms, is an object, practice or body part that becomes a focal point of stimulation. Fetishes become unhealthy when people are unable to function sexually without them. As long as they're used to enhance sexual pleasure rather than enable it, fetishes are perfectly OK. There are some surprising fetishes that your man might be into if you're feeling adventurous. First, try exhibitionism - having sex in public. Many men and women find the danger of getting caught super exciting, and the sensation of having sex somewhere other than a bed is stimulating. Being watched or watching someone else having sex or masturbating is a similar fetish that also can be hot.
Role playing can help you set up a voyeuristic scene. Try disrobing by a window where only your man can see you from outside, or crack the door as you get undressed and masturbate. He won't be able to contain himself. How's your hair? Consider its style the next time you two are feeling naughty. Men admit that braids, ponytails and pigtails are a big turn-on, perhaps because they make you seem younger and maybe because they resemble a whip. Try slapping your man's genitals gently with your hair, or simply sweeping it over his area - who knows how wild it'll drive him! Another fetish that's popular, particularly for younger men, is body piercings. Tongue, genital, nipple...you name it. Many men enjoy the sensation of a tongue ring when receiving oral sex. Having a material fetish is another popular one for men - whether it's latex, leather, silk or another material, having a woman wear articles of clothing made of it or even simply being stimulated with a piece of the material does it for some guys. So start off with perhaps a set of lingerie in an appealing material - you can try the full Catwoman look if you find that it works for him!